Sara ([info]azbukivedi_engl) wrote,
@ 2007-12-17 15:24:00
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The Cemetery

Fences around the plots
blocked the way
many were covered with weeds
fallen branches and trash
littered the paths
some gravestones had faded
beyond recognition

After three hours
my legs were scraped
bruised
stung
by overabundant nettles

People
people everywhere

They come in any weather
by buses and trains
from all over
carrying buckets and mops
to clean the graves of their loved ones
nobody else will

The Jewish section looks forlorn
The Jews are gone
perennial nomads
leaving our dead behind

The graves were not numbered
We only had the section number
We combed through the section
the size of a city block
time and again
but found no sign of the Grandpa's grave

After years of neglect
the gravestone had probably
sunk into the ground
like so many others around it
Then the weeds rushed in

American cemeteries
with their immaculate grounds
and clean gravestones
are ideal places
to quietly converse with the departed
to meditate

Easily accessed family history
like dusting off a photo album.

In Russia
I had to tear through
waist-high nettles and spider webs
bitching and moaning
while washing the stones
and weeding the plots

If I found them

The gravestones were screaming at me
calling
crying for attention
I hated to leave them again
But I had to go home



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[info]robrobbinks
2007-12-18 03:12 pm UTC (link)
lovely, and sad. i have been to far too many funerals in my life already, and am happy that i have never tied the body of the deceased to who they were, and thus have not put much emphasis on graves or gravemarkers. how we treat our dead is very interesting to me, and i frequently walk through graveyards to ackowledge those that have passed unknown to me. those that were known and loved i care fo rin my heart, not in marble. xoxoxox

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[info]azbukivedi_engl
2007-12-18 03:23 pm UTC (link)
Exactly, I am the same way. In Europe the whole "cemetery culture" seems to be different.

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